You are loved by God, unconditionally! There is nothing you can do to get God to love you more or less. You are loved by God because you are loved by God!
The false narratives which often run and ruin our lives become blocks to God’s unconditional love. Unaccepting parents or parent figures is one of the reasons we struggle to accept God’s unconditional love because we share what we know and we give what we have. If we don’t know the love of God toward us, we struggle to share God’s love with others.